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30 Day Writing Challenge #26 Things to say to an Ex

Something I would say to an ex? Huh that a fun topic, I think for most people it is supposed to be a bitter topic. A long angry rant. For me not so much. I mean ya like any person I have had bitter moments and junk but the fact is I do still talk with my exes so really I don’t have anything juicy to say but I guess here goes what will be a short entry.

First would be my high school ex. Now I know most people will say doesn’t count, we all had them no big deal and so on. Well I was with her for 3 years. All of high school. In my mind that is a pretty big time in one’s life. Let’s just say it didn’t end well. I was pretty hurt and bitter, for a while. I would think most teenage boys would be. But I learned some things from it plus looking back I do have some good memories. She also had some rough times happen but got through them so now looking back I am pretty happy for her. So the only thing I would say to her is Hey you had some cute kids! Congrats hope life is good to ya!

The only other I have really I was with for 9 years. That’s a long time. Funny think is she is still my acupuncturist. I still hang out with her and her new husband and kid. In fact we went to her daughters’ second birthday a month ish ago. What the hell is the point in being bitter?? I mean I guess we have a fucked up relationship most exes aren’t like us. We didn’t work out but I never understood why people have to be angry and bitter toward each other. So really I have nothing to say to her that I probably haven’t texted her or told her already!


I guess really if people wanna hear something bitter it would be toward a different girl. Not an ex really. Not that I didn’t want to be with her. We spent a few “nights” together. Hell one time she had a boyfriend that I was unaware of. (To be sure I don’t condon cheating.) She found god, which is good I guess. But the girl I knew was very different than the one thumping the bible. Just seems fake to me. You’re on a vodka and smoke diet then you discover god? In this case I am bitter I guess as I wanted something I never got, but she seems doing fine! LOL but I have what I want now so why should I be bitter? I don’t even think about it but needed something to make this blog not all aces about exes!
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